Because Devon and I decided not to find out the gender during my pregnancy. My mother, mother in law and all my sisters threw me a baby shower afterwards, when Oaks was just shy of 4 weeks old! They had this whole woodland vibe going on, with homemade hedgehog cookies, cupcakes topped with little deer figurines, mini hand pies and moss and wood accents throughout it was so cute and I even had Oaks dressed up in a little floral blouse with the tiniest little fur vest. We passed her around like a hot potato, while I got absolutely spoiled by everyone nearest and dearest to me. It’s always been hard for me to accept gifts from people, I find it awkward and feel bad that people have spent money on me. But looking back I feel so blessed to have so many people care about my little family and I to shower us with so many things we didn’t even know we needed!